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6 Ways to Spice Things Up During Sex

6 Ways to Spice Things Up During Sex

Posted by Allison on 22nd Jul 2020

STOP! If you have not explored our foreplay post read it before you go any further!

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Now that you have explored foreplay in seven new unique ways, now is the time to get down and dirty. Foreplay isn’t the only thing that can be fun and extraordinary, here are some new ways to spice up the sex too.

One of the hottest things that you can do with your partner is maintain complete eye contact the entire time. Not only is it super-hot but it also gives you a deeper connection. Talk about having great sex and building your connection with one another!

Take the dirty talk you dispersed to your partner throughout the day into the bedroom with you. Pick your favorites throughout the day and say them out loud. Tell them what you want and how you want it. Make it as dirty as you want.

Want to make it a little more interesting? Try just having sex – focusing on eye contact and touching. No words. Let your bodies do the talking for you.

Do you and your partner use sex toys? If so, bring them into the game. If not, try them out. Start off with something simple like flavored lube, a vibrator or dildo. If you want to make it more interesting add a cock ring. Don’t forget to add the lube!

Are things usually at a fast pace or do things always go nice and slow? If you’ve been with your partner for long enough you both tend to get into a rhythm and it becomes expected. Try changing the pace – do the opposite of what you normally do or do it throughout your sexcapade. Fast, slow, slow, fast, fast. Slow, fast, fast, slow, fast. Take it nice and slow following the beat of a sexy slow song. Or bang one out fast and quick. Whatever the case, it’ll make for a different experience and keep your partner on their toes.

Does the bedroom feel like the same old thing? Pick another room in the house to get it on. If you are feeling extra frisky – you could meet somewhere and do it in a public place. Public but private enough that you won’t get caught. Just like starting it off with a make out session in the back seat, let your urges get the best of you and have it out in your car (or some other sexy place).

Like I mentioned before with foreplay – if you are more of a submissive in the relationship try to take on the aggressive role and take control of how things go. If you are more of the aggressive partner relinquish that control and let your partner take it on. Follow their lead. You might be surprised how taking on the role of something different in bed can be super-hot and make the sex even more great!

Our adult lube is a great addition to all your foreplay and sex needs. Add a splash at the beginning and throw in a bit more each time to really make things slippery, stimulating, and fun.